Thursday, July 23, 2009

This will be an interesting couple of days...

As some of you know, I live with a family here in Arkansas. When I took this position at FCB I was already friends with the youth pastor. We have known each other since 1997 and he is the reason that they even considered me for this job. He offered to let me live with him, his wife and their 4 kids when I got here...so I moved in.

It is really a lot easier to live with them than people seem to think it would be. I have my own room, my door locks if I want it to and if I close the door I am normally left alone. The kids are great and James and his wife are old friends. It has been a pretty smooth transition so far.

Now the reason the next few days will be interesting is a combination of things. One thing is that I now officially have a girlfriend (that hasn't happened in a while) and James is out of town for the next three days. Now those may be two unrelated items but the fact that they happened at the same time makes it interesting around the house. I get to help with the kids at home a bit more than normal, obviously they still have their mother at home but I am going to do my best to pick up some of the slack while James is away and at the same time I am trying to do the things that a boyfriend is supposed to do.

Last night Ashley and I talked on the phone for a while but not until the kids were already in bed. I am going to take her out to dinner on Friday night and then she is going to come to my softball game...but we may try to stop by the house to make sure the kids are all in bed between dinner and game.

Also the office is very different without James here. He is the guy that a lot of people rely on to help get things done around here. I am just getting used to my job so I use him a lot for ideas, for help with projects...all kinds of stuff.

So he gets back Saturday night...let's see how it goes until then.

1 comment:

The Challs said...

I'm sure you can handle it. If not, then just tell James he didn't follow God's plan for his life when he left town.